When reading this question the day after, one would think I was under the influence of drugs.
I came up with a better solution that only uses javascript variables:
VIEW:
<script>var iconNumber = 0;</script>
@using (Ajax.BeginForm("", "",
new AjaxOptions
{
OnBegin = "$('#iconElement' + iconNumber).attr('class', 'fa fa-spinner fa-spin');",
HttpMethod = "POST"
}))
{
Html input here
<button type="submit" class="btn btn-danger" id="IconElement1" onclick="iconNumber = 1;">
<button type="submit" class="btn btn-danger" id="IconElement2" onclick="iconNumber = 2;">
<button type="submit" class="btn btn-danger" id="IconElement3" onclick="iconNumber = 3;">
}
I can now disable the form after submit to prevent multiple requests. Because I don't start the spinner directly in onclick I don't have to disable the buttons, (spinner wont start).