Hi Tommer - As far as I know, there isn’t really a Swing Look and Feel that matches Microsoft’s WinUI 3 one-to-one. WinUI 3 is based on the modern Fluent Design System, which Swing doesn’t natively support.
That said, if you’re after something that looks similar to Windows 10/11, FlatLaf is probably your best option. It has Light and Dark themes with a clean, modern look and is actively maintained. You can also try the FlatLaf IntelliJ or FlatLaf Windows 11 themes — they both have a minimalist style that’s somewhat close to WinUI.
If you really want to get closer to the Fluent look, you can tweak FlatLaf’s colors, corner rounding, and shadows a bit — but that’s probably as close as it gets for now.
Hope that helps!